123. Orderud Triple Homicide

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the triple homicide of the Orderud family.


Case Sources:

The Norway Post, “Triple-Murder Case, Son and His Wife Arrested,” no author listed, updated July 18, 2019


The Norway Post, “All Suspects Indicted in Orderud Triple Murder Case,” no author listed, updated July 18, 2019


Newsinenglish.no, “Orderud convicts released,” newsinenglish.no.staff, January 7, 2015


Newsinenglish.no, “Orderuds seek reopening of triple murder probe,” newsinenglish.no.staff, June 22, 2018


Nordicworld.tv, “The Orderud Case” Braa.net, “True Crime – The Unsolved Murders of the Orderud Family and the Connection with the Kosovo War,” by Knut A. Braa, January 2022


Vg.no./special/2018/ordered/, “Gaten Orderud” Alchetron.com, “Orderud Case, updated on April 25, 2018


Mapcarta.com, “Orderud”


Youtube.com, “The Orderud Murders,” by Bella Fiori, November 29, 2021


Tricksfast.com, September 24, 2020


The Telegraph, “The crime that haunts me, A very Norwegian family feud,” by Anne Holt, March 23, 2011


Newsbeezer.com, “Man Claims that the Orderud sock is his,” no author, December 8, 2018


Newsbeezer.com, “Order Question: — Private Detective Promises Sensational Evidence,” no author, May 12, 2018


Newsbeezer.com, “By Orderud: — Very Important to Reconsider the Case,” no author, June 23, 2018


Imdb.com, “Gaten Orderud,” TV Mini Series, 2018


Wikipedia, “Orderud Case”


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122. Lisa Nowak – The Love Triangle From Space

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the astronaut, Lisa Nowak, and her involvement in a love triangle.

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Case Sources:

The New York Times, “Astronaut Charged with Attempted Murder,” by Newman and Christine Hauser, Feburary 6, 2007


Abcnews.go.com, “The Evidence Against Lisa Nowak,” by Gina Sunseri, April 11, 2007


Abcnews.go.com, “Exclusive: Astronaut Love Triangle Victim ‘Thought … She Was Going to Murder Me,” by Eamon Mcniff and Cleopatra Andreadis, February 7, 2011


Houstoniamag.com, “Tainted Love: The Astronaut Love Triangle That Led to Adult Diapers and Battery,” by Gwendolyn Knapp, November 26, 2018 (published in the December 2018 issue of Houstonia Magazine)


Biography.com, “Lisa Nowak: Why the Astronaut Drove 900 Miles to Attack her Ex’s Girlfriend,” by Sara Kettler, original October 1, 2019; updated October 14, 2020


People.com, “The Astronaut Love Triangle 9 Years Later: Victim Colleen Shipman Opens Up About the Attack and Her Marriage to Bill Oefelein,” by Jeff Truesdell, March 23, 2016


Space.com, “Going with a view? A spacewalk is the ‘best view for a bathroom,’ astronaut says,” by Chelsea Gohd, July 1, 2020


Texasmonthly.com, “Lust in Space,” by S.C. Gwynne, May 2007


Texasstandard.org, “Texans Remember Space Shuttle Columbia’s Final Flight,” by Jill Ament, February 1, 2018


Google maps


Wikipedia , the free encyclopedia


Wikipedia , “William Oefelein”







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121. The Norrmalmstorg Robbery

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the 1973 Norrmalmstorg Bank Robbery and how it coined the term “Stockholm Syndrome”.

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Case Sources:

The New Yorker, “The Bank Drama,” by Daniel Lang, November 18, 1974


History.com, “Stockholm Syndrome: The True Story of Hostages Loyal to their Captor,” by Christopher Klein, April 9, 2019


Smithsonianmag.com, “The Six-Day Hostage Standoff that Gave Rise to ‘Stockholm Syndrom,’” by Kat Eschner, August 23, 2017


Time.com, “A 1973 Bank Robbery Gave the World ‘Stockholm Syndrome’ – But There’s More to the Story Than That,” by David King, August 4, 2020


Historybyday.com, “How the ‘Bank Drama’ of 1973 Brought Us Stockholm Syndrome,” by Alva Yaffe, no date provided.


Truecrimeedition.com, “Stockholm Syndrome, would you protect the people sent to harm you?” author not listed, June 7, 2021


My.clevelandclinic.org, “Stockholm Syndrome”


Daily.jstor.org, “Stockholm Syndrome,” by Kristin Hunt, April 24, 2019


Macrotrends.com, “Stockholm, Sweden Metro Area Population 1950-2022”


Thecinemaholic.com, “Where is Jan-Erik Olsson Now?” by Shraman Mitra, May 6, 2022


Netflixlife.com, “Clark on Netflix: is Clark Olofsson still alive?” by Natalie Zamora, May 2022


Thetealmango.com, “Clark Olofsson: The Swedish Criminal who Inspired the Stockholm Syndrome,” by Mallika, May 6, 2022






Wikepedia.org, “Jan-Erik Olsson”







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120. Vanessa Guillen – The Murdered Soldier

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the murder of 20-year-old, Vanessa

Guillen, an Army soldier stationed at Fort Hood, Texas.

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Case Sources:

The New York Times, “What to Know About the Death of Vanessa Guillen,” by Johnny Diaz,

Maria Cramer and Christina Morales, April 30, 2021

Cecily Ann Aguilar Criminal Complaint, filed in U.S. District Court for the Western District of

Texas, on July 2, 2020

Abcnews.go.com, Vanessa Guillen’s fiancé, closest friends detail upsetting investigation, by

Allie Yang, Denise Martinez-ramundo, Natalie Cardenas, Chris Kilmer, and Abby Cruz, June 11,


Eyewitness News, abc13, “New court documents in Vanessa Guillen case reveal possible

motive for murder,” by Pooja Lodhia, May 24, 2022

The Washington Post, “Remains of missing soldier Vanessa Guillen likely found, family says, as

suspect kills himself,” by Alex Horton and Arelis R. Hernandez, July 1, 2020

The Washington Post, “Fort Hood is named for a Confederate traitor. Is it time for ‘Fort

Bevavidenz,’” by Alex Horton, November 11, 2020

Usatoday.com, “Ten Weeks: a Timeline of the search for Vanessa Guillen,” by Heather

Osbourne, Jessica Priest, Javier Zarracina and Karl Gelles, USA TODAY NETWORK, July 10,

2020, updated July 15, 2020

Kwtx.com, “Protesters cheer after judge denies motion from woman charged in Fort Hood

soldier’s death,” by Staff, June 16, 2021

Armytimes.com, “Possible motive in Vanessa Guillen murder revealed in new court records,” by

Rachel Nostrant, May 27, 2022

Kbtx.com, “DPS Report reveals motive in brutal Fort Hood killing of Vanessa Guillen,” by

Angela Bonilla and KWTX staff, May 24, 2022

Abc7chicago.com, “Vanessa Guillen’s fiancé speaks out in 1 st national TV interview since her

death: ‘They failed us,’” by Allie Yang, Denise Martinez-Ramundo, Natalie Cardenas, and Chris

Kilmer, June 11, 2021

Kcentv.com, “Judge denies motion to throw out indictment of Cecily Aguilar, woman accused

of dismembering, disposing of Vanessa Guillen’s body,” by Melissa Guz, January 20, 2022

Kcentv.com, “Legal Expert: Cecily Aguilar is entitled to due process,” by Bary Roy, January 20,


Kdhnews.com, “No new trial date set in case of woman accused of covering up Guillen murder,

but many court filings,” by Emily Hilley-Sierzchula, May 17, 2022

The U.S. Sun, the-sun.com, “Dumped, First picture of Fort Hood soldier Vanessa Guillen’s

grave where her remains were found ‘chopped up in cement,’” by Mollie Mansfield and Laura

Gesauldi-Gilmore, July 2, 2020

Crimeonline.com, “Breaking: Fort Hood soldier Vanessa Guillen bludgeoned dead with hammer

in armoy room, family lawyer says,” by Leigh Egan, July 2, 2020

Heavy.com, “Cecily Aguilar: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know,” by Stephanie Dube Dwilson,

September 16, 2020

Military.com, “Fort Hood Army Base Guide”

Installations.militaryonesource.mil, “Fort Hood In-depth Overview”

Armytimes.com, “Vanessa Guillen’s sisters say Fort Hood memorial gate is a ‘step in the right

direction’,” by Kyle Rempfer, April 20, 2021

Conandaily.com, “Keon Devonte Aguilar biography: 10 things about Cecily Aguilar’s husband,”

by Erica Diaz Mendoza, April 5, 2021

Conandaily.com, “Aaron David Robinson biography: 13 things about US Army soldier in Fort

Hood, Killeen, Texas,” by Erica Diaz Mendoza Lao, July 1, 2020

Wikepedia.org, “Murder of Vanessa Giullen”






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119. Jayna Murray – The Yoga Store Slaughter

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the murder of Jayna Murray, also

known as the LuluLemon Murder.

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Case Sources:


Lululemon murder – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Brittany Norwood | Murderpedia, the encyclopedia of murderers


Multiple newspaper articles were used to put together the timeline and reporting.

Police Investigate Assault, Murder On Bethesda Row | WAMU

Vigil Tonight for Lululemon Victim – NBC4 Washington (nbcwashington.com)

Lululemon Bethesda slaying arrest announced: Brittany Norwood being charged with murder –

The Washington Post

Court Date Put Off In Bethesda Yoga Shop Killing – CBS Baltimore (cbslocal.com)

Lululemon murder trial: Apple store workers say they heard “noises” the night of the Jayna

Murray murder – CBS News

Brittany Norwood likely will plead insanity – The Washington Post

Nothing in Lululemon suspect’s past suggests she could have done what police allege – The

Washington Post

Prosecutor: Brittany Norwood Stole Merchandise Before Killing Jayna Murray – ABC News


Bethesda Lululemon shop reopens after death of employee – The Washington Post

Grunts, screams came from behind Lululemon wall, Apple Store workers testify – The

Washington Post

Who is Brittany Norwood? Details start to trickle out about woman accused of Lululemon

homicide | WJLA

Prosecutor: Brittany Norwood Stole Merchandise Before Killing Jayna Murray – ABC News


Snapped: Women Who Murder: Brittany Norwood on Apple Podcasts

Episode 14: Brittany Norwood | Snapped Photos (oxygen.com)

The Yoga Store Murder – Google Books

.The Lululemon Murder Story – YouTube : WARNING: There are lot of bloody images


Jayna Murray Obituary – The Woodlands, TX (dignitymemorial.com)

Maryland DOC Inmate Locator (state.md.us)


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118. Richard Cottingham – The Torso Killer

This week on MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the murders done at the hands of Richard Cottingham.

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Case Sources:

Richard Cottingham | Murderpedia, the encyclopedia of murderers

Richard Cottingham – Wikipedia



Find a Grave – Millions of Cemetery Records

Torso Killer: Ailing Richard Cottingham Confesses to More Murders – Rolling Stone

Long-Buried Secrets: The Serial Killer and the Detective – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

The New York Ripper Serial Killer Richard Cottingham. (2018). (n.p.): RJ PARKER PUBLISHING, INC.

The New York Ripper: The True Story of Serial Killer Richard Cottingham: Vronsky, Peter, Publishing, RJ Parker, Designs, Aeternum: 9781984277268: Books – Amazon

The New York Ripper Serial Killer Richard Cottingham – Google Books

N.J serial killer now linked to 9 victims, but will his murder toll rise? The timeline of the ‘Torso Killer.’ – nj.com

Richard Cottingham|New Jersey’s Most Savage Killers. #Richard #Cottongham #New Jersey #Serial Killer – YouTube

She befriended her mother’s killer to solve other terrible crimes – Chicago Today

Torso Killer: Ailing Richard Cottingham Confesses to More Murders – Rolling Stone

Cases New Jersey Girl Murders

This website has the most pictures and information gathered INCLUDING a very detailed map of all the New Jersey and New York sexual homicide cases from 1963-1980: Geo-forensic Map New Jersey Girl Murders

‘Torso Killer’ Richard Cottingham, North Jersey serial killer

The Times Square Killer | Netflix Official Site

Richard Francis Cottingham (* 25. November 1946 in New York City) – YouTube

Department of Psychology Radford University Microsoft Word – Cottingham, Richard _spring 2007_.doc (radford.edu)

Crime Scene: The Times Square Killer Director Joe Berlinger Reveals What Sparked Idea for Season 2 (moviemaker.com)

Offender Details (state.nj.us)







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117. Krista and Bart Halderson – The Murdered Parents

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the double homicide of Krista Rae Halderson and Bart A. Halerson at the hands of their 23-year-old son, Chandler.


Case Sources:

Lawandcrime.com, “Man Who Played Video Games All Day, Lied About SpaceX Job, and Dismembered His Parents

Heads to Prison For Life,” by Aaron Keller, March 17, 2022

Lawandcrime.com, “Unemployed Son Mooched Off Parents He Killed and Dismembered, Claimed to Be College

Student Who Got Job at SpaceX: Prosecutor,” by Alberto Luperon, January 4, 2022

WMTV, nbc15.com, “Chandler Halderson found guilty of killing his parents,” by Juliana Tornabene, January 20, 2022

WMTV, nbc15.com, “Sheriff: Krista Halderson remains located; New homicide charge recommended,” by Nick

Viviani, July 30, 2021

WMTV, nbc15.com, “Prosecutors: Chandler Halderson created ‘web of lies’ through phony email addresses,” by

Juliana Tornabene, January 19, 2022

Audiotape of NBC15 Interview with Chandler Halderson, dated July 8, 2021.

Wqow.com, “Prosecutor: Halderson’s father about to expose son’s lifestyle lies before homicide,” by Tony Galli,

January 5, 2022

Wkow.com, “’I’m going to give them an earful:’ Witness says Halderson was angry with his parents over alleged

disappearance,” by Tony Galli, January 5, 2022

Heavy.com, “Chandler Halderson’s Parents, Bart & Krista: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know,” no author or date


Channel3000.com, “’I felt like I needed to do something:’ Brother of Chandler Halderson testifies in homicide trial,”

by Jaymes Langrehr, January 4, 2022

Channel3000.com, “DNA: Chandler Halderson was wearing shoes stained with his parents’ blood,” by Jaymes

Langrehr, January 11, 2022

Wbay.com, “Detectives testify when Chandler Halderson went from person of interest to suspect,” by Juliana

Tornabene, dated January 7, 2022

Hngnews.com, “Brother, officers testify in Halderson case,” by Mark Berglund, January 5, 2022

Criminal Information, filed by State of Wisconsin in Dane County Circuit Court on August 24, 2021

Tributearchive.com, “Bart A. and Krista R. Halderson,” obituaries.

Madisoncollege.edu website









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116. Lisa McVey and the Tampa Bay Victims

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the victims of the Hillsborough County Serial Killer.

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Case Sources:

CNN, “A convicted serial killer and rapist was executed as 2 women who survived his attacks watched,” by Dakin Andone, May 24, 2019

Tampa Bay Times, “Tampa serial killer Bobby Joe Long is scheduled to be executed tonight. We remember the victims,” by Gabrielle Calise, April 25, 2019 (updated May 23, 2019)

Tampa Bay Times, “Tampa serial killer Bobby Joe Long is executed in silence,” by Kathryn Varn, May 23, 2019

wfla.com, News Channel 8, Case of Bobby Joe Long: Notorious Tampa Bay serial killer executed,” by Evan Donovan, May 22, 2019 (updated May 23, 2019)

The U.S. Sun (from the-sun.com), “Sick Killer, Who were Bobby Joe Long’s victims?” by Jon Rogers, June 4, 2021

The U.S. Sun (from the-sun.com), “Troubled Childhood, Who was Lisa McVey’s grandmother?” by Israel Salas-Rodriguez, June 8, 2021

Murderpedia.org, “Bobby Joe Long”

Thenetline.com, “What is Lisa McVey doing now? The sheriff’s deputy uses her experience to sensitize children about abduction,” by Chege Karomo, January 31, 2022

thefamouspeople.com, “Bobby Joe Long Biography (Serial Killer), no author or date provided

allthatsinteresting.com, “How Lisa McVey Outsmarted A Serial Killer – And Led Police Straight To His Door,” by Genevieve Carlton, checked by Jaclyn Anglis, January 19, 2022

allthatsinteresting.com, “The Horrifying Story of Bobby Joe Long: From Classified Ad Rapist to Serial Killer,” by All That’s Interesting, checked by Leah Silverman, October 30, 2021, updated November 18, 2021

Dailymail.co.uk, “Woman who was raped and kidnapped as a suicidal teen by serial killer Bobby Joe Long – documented in Netflix drama Believe Me – wanted a front row seat for his execution but maintains his horrific crimes ‘saved my life’” by Jo Tweedy for mailonline, June 29, 2021

Biography.com, “Bobby Joe Long, Biography 1953-2019” no author listed, April 27, 2017

Radiox.co.uk, “Where is serial killer Bobby Joe Long now?”, by Radio X, June 4, 2021

heinonline.org, printing “The ‘Bobby Joe’ Long Serial Murder Case: A Study in Cooperation,” by Capt. Gary Terry (HCSO) and SA Michael P. Malone, M.S. (FBI Hairs and Fiber Unit), December 1987

Macrotrends.net, “Tampa Metro Area Population 1950-2022”

Google maps

Various published opinions by the Florida Supreme Court

Investigationdiscovery.com, “Bobby Joe Long, ‘The Classified Ad Rapist,’ Caused Tampa’s Murder Rate to Skyrocket” by Terri Osborne, dated November 16, 2021

Discover.hubpages.com, “Profile of a Serial Killer – Part 3 – Bobby Joe Long,” by Matthew I Crawford, May 3, 2011

Lifetime film, “Believe Me: The Abduction of Lisa McVey,” on Amazon Prime

Chillingcrimes.com, “Lisa McVey,” June 1, 2020

Radiox.co.uk, “Lisa McVey family: Did the teen really live with her grandmother?” no author listed, June 7, 2021

Wikipedia, “Bobby Joe Long”




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115. The Manson Family – Part 2

On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the history of Charles Manson, The Manson Family Cult, and the murders they committed.


Case Sources:






Bugliosi, V., Gentry, C. (1994). Helter skelter. United Kingdom: W.W. Norton.














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